By Birkarnelzelzit Thiyam
When you ride a horse with your girlfriend at the back of you, the society will say “why are these people so lazy?”. When you walk with your girlfriend with the horse walking behind you, the society will say “why don’t they get on the horse? So foolish,”. When you walk and your girlfriend on the horse, the society will say “why is she on the horse? Can’t she walk with him? So bad,”. Is there any way you can escape? A big NO. Then why still we don’t do what we want? Any way round, we are caught with these petty blames. You are still afraid to go up on the stage and project your thoughts just because of the fear that the society will laugh at you. To divulge the trust, the society will laugh at you for sure, so why you still don’t do what you like? There is no way we can do about it. We are so much done with the society. You will never know that you are handsome until you get 500 likes in your profile picture (facebook). Life is all about doing what you want and creating a solid conclusion. When A chain smoker becomes an IAS officer, this society will say that he smokes to cut his exam pressures. But when that person can’t make it, this society will project him as a drug addict. Just know that a movie is judged by its ending. It’s not important who starts the game, but the one who finished it. Sometimes we are confused with what to do in life, or can’t figure out your purpose then just go for your passion, it will give you the definition of your purpose. Don’t be so scared when I talk about the society, nothing that is outside of you can affect you until you give your permission. If you are affected, then just remember that you are breathing heavily while drowning. You are born to overcome thorn. Your legs will bleed if you don’t put on your slippers. These slippers are nothing but willingness to overcome things. A ship in port is safe but that’s not what ships were built for. Even if you fail, never quit. Courage is not only about shouting and running towards your enemy, sometimes it’s keeping quiet and holding yourself to try again. To take life from the perspective of Physics, the strongest friction happens at the point of the interchange between static and kinetic frictions. Therefore, the moment you really feel you can’t go on is usually the moment right before the miracle happens. Always be the person who does different things. At first, they will ask you, WHY you are doing this? But latter on, they will ask you, HOW did you do it? On the other hand, if you want to be a great leader then you should have the feeling of creating more leaders. But this society thinks that leader should be only one, they push others down because they are insecure (political leaders).
The only reason why some people are successful is just because they fail more times then you. Once Michel Jordan said “I have missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I have been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I have failed over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed,”. This is how people accept failures. Stop asking “why I still stuck in this situation?” and start asking “what do I learn from this situation?”. Remember it’s hard to beat those who never give up. All the successful person will be having a painful story and all the painful stories will have some successful endings, accept the pain and get ready for success. Don’t feel bad when you can’t sing like Sonu Nigam. Don’t think that someone else is more blessed than you are. It’s just that you are blessed in a different area. Keep focussing on your goal to blurred the obstacles, obstacles are just those scary things that you see when you take your eyes off from your goal. You are already tight up by the rope of running life, no need of saying ‘move on’ because it will go on. What matters is to get up when we fall because when we fall, it will drag us and we might get hurt, simple as that. Everything happens in life for a reason, never think you met me on the road by mistake, we just shared a same dot on different stories. Life is made by choices, it’s like a multiple choice question, sometimes the choices confused you, not the question. Stop wasting your time living on someone’s life, you know what you are good at. If you don’t know what you are good at then chose the thing which makes you happy all the time. Remember “A champion is someone who gets up when he can’t,”.
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